Please lift me in prayer as I've let go of praying for my ex son in law. I've held him up in constant prayer for over 18 months and honestly I can't do it anymore. He hurt my daughter deeply and honestly I've had a hard time thinking that God is going to exact Romans 12:19 on him. (Do not take revenge, my dear friends, but leave room for God's wrath, for it is written: "It is mine to avenge; I will repay," says the Lord.) is going to happen to him. He has a girlfriend, a new house, a promotion at work, two really nice vehicles and went on with his life and prospered. My daughter still struggles with some of the emotional scars he left her with (abandonment, cheating, public humiliation, financial struggles, loneliness, trust issues). She was the Christian in the relationship and he pretended to be when it served his purposes. She's had Christian counseling, dated guys.(isn't emotionally shallow and won't just have a relationship with someone to keep from being lonely) been a model Christian in how she handled herself never speaking bad about him or trying to make him "pay" for what he did. I guess the part that frustrates me most is "where are her blessings out of this?" I know life isn't fair, but it's been great for him since he left, almost like he got the blessings. UGH! Anyone been in this situation? How'd you handle it?