Fiance & I have been fighting for a while. He head butted me few wks ago but stopped himself. Last night he got in my face trying to get me to hit him so he can get battery charges on me, thus taking my nursing license & our children. I know this bc during a period of reconciliation he told me of this plan. When I refused to hit him he smacked my hand away that was blocking him from coming closer. I don't recall much of what was said, except he was yelling a lot. So I called the police. Sure enough, he tried to get me for battery.
I have been praying every day, for him, for us, for our family. I read self help books like 'when sorry s not enough & marriage on the rock. Christian books trying to help us. I go to therapy every week to learn appropriate ways to respond to such situations (the physical violence is new, although verbal is not -'both of us are guilty of it).
He has had a very rough week, & I could've been more understanding. On that same token I need to feel loved by him.
I get so angry w him bc I am hurt, then when he comes back at me w anger I just shut down.
I have certainly done my part, he was a Good man 2 yrs ago when we meet.
BIG question, when does a faithful Christian woman say Enough??
Advice & prayers please