Our room-mate, Randy, has a bad drinking problem. He has lived with us almost 2 years now. We had a long talk with him today. We worry about him, he stays out very late, like 3 am. He could get a DUI, or worst case scenario, hit someone while driving. Any day now we fret he'll be arrested, lose his job, could get his vehicle confiscated. He is 59, he's not a child. He is damaging his liver. He gets so drunk he is falling down drunk. He goes to church, in fact he volunteers at his church helping set up the sound system and he also helps with the food kitchen once a week. He has this once saved always saved mentality (thx to the watered down church he goes to). Says I'll go to Heaven. He's living a double life. Please pray. He needs to stop drinking. We set a curfew of 12:30 p.m. now. And no more alcohol in our home. (We do not drink at all). We suggested AA or Celebrate Recovery (at his church). After we spoke with him I knocked on his door to tell him something and he was crying. He's divorced and lonely. We think that's why he goes to the bars. But he needs to get hobbies or do things that do not involve drinking. Anyone out there with any comments, I welcome them. My husband and I don't drink because his mother was an alcoholic and drug addict. He was taken away from her when small. I don't because frankly I hate the taste and it's expensive and not godly to be a drunkard. I think if a person has a glass of wine occasionally it's okay. But Randy is a falling down drunk!