First of all thank you, prayer warriors, for praying for us. We have grateful hearts. Bless you. We need prayer about our room-mate Ariel. We have to take in 2 room-mates because rents here in this area and the cost of living is sky high. Charlie,our other room-mate, we really like. Ariel, 26, came from East Coast; we are in Oregon. In our state, marijuana is legal. When he moved in he was honest and upfront and told us he smokes it. He said he needs it to relax/stay calm. We has some ADD going on. Possibly bipolar. We told him we don't allow it on our property or in our home, mostly because it is stinky. We are Christians, but try to have an open mind. And though we don't use marijuana, we told him he could. We now realize that was a mistake. Smoking that stuff makes him very moody. Everything we say he analyzes and we get into "discussions". He's Black; we are Caucasion. He is always on the lookout. Are we being racist? Would we have rented to him if we were? No! Actually, we have dear friends who are Black. When we mentioned this he said I don't want to hear it. What are they, trinkets you can brag about? He said he wished others could be black for one day. He has some issues, that's for use. Yet he is a nice young man and extremely smart. And when he's not so mean, he can be pleasant. Ariel works full time and takes college classes. His car broke down, needed work. He got parts and fixed it himself for $150. He broke up with his Fiancee not long ago. This is hard on him.